There are no realistic exits from quarrels. Far better to avoid it in the first place.Leave petty arguments and useless quarrels for the fools. Undoubtledly some have unusual charisma for it. I think it was Blaise Pascal who once commented-" Most men live lives of quiet desperation".He was referring to people who were getting into situations in which they could not disentangle themselves. And those who manage to get out,but got badly burned. The Midnight Owl