The lady's power over men went beyond the sexual. She was able to beckon the vulnerable into her subtle,experienced net. Men felt confused,hopeful,rejected and agigated in her presence as she whipped up a maelstorm of emotions around her. But the emotional attachment to her made the men want to help this victim in life. This was precisely the death trap.Once men identified with her problems,their own funeral rites had begun.. Men would be drawn into her problems.Characters like her cannot be helped, their problems are just too deep. Too ingrained with a long,sordid personal history.This sort is not restricted to the female gender.As with many infections,the problems only appear later.And it will spread to friends,colleagues and family.Endless late night calls and the telephone ringing imcessantly.
You can spend a lifetime studying the pathology of these people but dont waste your time- be detached and aloof.Dont play the Saviour-Or you will be unhinged. Dont try to help,counsel or pass them on to your friends.Once you step on this chewing gum, you can't rub it off. It dosent go off easily.Now its on the other feet too.You take a tissue to take it off- now there is some gum on your hands.When you are in the presence of this chewing gum- be detached or face the consequences.I used to visit Mental Institutions.I was surprised to discover how many of the patients there had naively stepped on these chewing gums. Vijay- The Midnight Owl
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