
If any group makes you feel unwelcome,do not condescend yourself and try to fit in.To fit in you have to be courteous and kind when others are not.To try to be part of the group when your presence is not even acknowledged-that is stupidity.The truth is-you dont need to please these Jackasses for acceptance or to affirm your worth and dignity.If you try,they will leave you mentally and emotionally exhausted.Turn and walk before they ruffle your feathers.There will always be other doors open.May you have the courage and move on. Vijay- The Midnight Owl